Today I want to quickly cover a trap I see a lot of guys falling into when using humor to attract women.
Don’t get me wrong here, humor is probably the best method to attract women but there is a limit to the humor you should employ. Specifically acting like a clown or buffoon. That guy absolutely must the center of attention by acting hyper and crazy.
We all have friends like that and you wonder what they hell they’re doing half the time. These are the guys that come off as if they are trying too hard and that’s exactly how women see them as well. They are always looking to prove themselves no matter what and desperately want to be liked. Problem is that they come off as desperate.
You may also fall into the category of being “that guy” with people laughing at you. This is not the place where you wan to be no one will take you serious.
Then we got the guy that uses humor to abuse other people. There isn’t anything wrong with breaking chops – all guys do it. What I’m talking about is the guy that humiliates someone just so he can look cool. This clearly is abusing humor at some else’s expense due to some deep physiological issues of rejection he may feel so he must destroy someone else to feel good.
This isn’t alpha male behavior….not by a long shot! This is the most pathetic type of man around – there is absolutely nothing to envy about this guy.
The best method I’ve used to attract women with humor was to playfully tease her. You don’t have to be a jerk to attract women. In fact in the long run being the jerk will backfire and you will never wind up with the quality woman you want.
So what methods do you use to attract women?
I’d like to hear from you! If you have any tips on using humor to attract women share them on this blog.
Until then just take note when making women laugh, challenge her and playfully teasing her. You will stand out from the crowd and quickly gain her attention
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